My friend recently posted this on facebook, “When you’re in a freakin’ rush, all the damn traffic lights seems to be going against you! Arggg!!”
Which is both funny and true at the same time.
I think the main reason you feel it is going against you is because you want so badly for it to be green.
The longer it takes to be green, the more you feel it is resisting your wants.
The reality of the situation is that the traffic light neither likes or dislikes you. It isn’t purposely going against you today, just to annoy you.
It’s actually very fair. The moment it goes against you, it’s actually allow someone else to go. And the moment it allows you to go, it’s going against someone else who is in a rush by giving them the red light.
We just feel victimized in that moment, because we are trying so hard to get to our destination and only notice all these stupid obstacles (red lights) in our way.
There are many ways around getting frustrated at red lights …
- Plan accordingly. If you’re not late, why would you rush? Give yourself some extra time. Know yourself. If you always come 10 mins late, next time why not leave 10 mins earlier to counteract your 10 mins lateness. What’s wrong with being there early? Oh yeah, you have to wait for them. Then what’s wrong with waiting for them? You feel like time is wasted? If they aren’t important enough for you to wait for them, perhaps you shouldn’t even be there in the first place.
- Don’t Rush. Sh*t happens I know and you can’t plan for everything. Still don’t rush. I mean, do all you can, but in the end … everyone is known to be late one time or another. Sometimes when you are rushing, it actually causes you to be more late … Such as speeding and getting a ticket. Or running a red light and getting into a car accident. Getting their on time isn’t worth risking your life.
- Reschedule. People are understanding. People make mistakes. People have a calendar with tons of free space. You could be in the next open slot. I’d rather reschedule then waste my time waiting for you stuck in traffic … again!